Of all the possible exemptions from military service that one a man might imagine, delighting his new wife might seem the least probable and the most appealing.
If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to war or have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to stay home and bring happiness to the wife he has married.
Thus does Deuteronomy’s prescription for an integrated society take aim at the peril of absence. Solitude, after all, was the Primordial Man’s first enemy in the early pages of Genesis, a threat long before the serpent appeared. The lawgiver here picks up that threat and assures that the company of the home outranks the camaraderie of the battlefield. Though it may be too much to posit a neat hierarchy of social duties, one that privileges the family over the nation, it is only a small leap to see such social theory beginning its gestation here. (more…)